Common Escort Terms, Definitions and Words, used by escorts and hobbyists. Escort terms, sex definitions and abbreviations in escort ads
This is an escort terms / escort slang dictionary of escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use. These are words used to describe various sexual activities in escort ads. Each sex term is followed by a definition and every escort abbreviation is explained.
Top ten most frequently used terms in escort ads
A-Level / Greek
BBBJ CIM DATY DFK GFE
A vague term today, it used to mean “BBBJ + CFS + DFK + DATY + MSOG”.
Other common Internet abbreviations
Information, intelligence, intel. e.g. “I got the 411 on her from hobbyhorse”. In the context of online forums requests for information about ASPs are labeled “411“, e.g., “411 Redhead Rianna”.
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420 or 420 friendly
An ASP that will smoke marijuana with you. A bit of advice: Adding drugs to your hobbying mix tends to give you a MUCH larger profile on Uncle Leo’s radar. An ASP who has a rep for being 420-friendly is likely getting way more attention from Uncle Leo than the more conservative hobbyists would prefer.
Mutual, simultaneous oral sex.
The dollar sign (or collection of dollar signs) is sometimes used imply the price range of the services offered/provided. E.g., $ = $100, $$ = $200, $$$ = $300 and so on. Often .5 signifies $50, so $$.5 would mean $250.
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Escort terms starting with A
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Apartment-based Asian massage parlor, as opposed to a commercial establishment.
American-born Chinese, also known as “banana”: yellow outside, white inside.
British parlance for anal sex. See also Greek.
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Rubbing the body with a variety of materials from raw silk to leather to sandpaper.
adult baby creche
A parent-child roleplay with one participant taking care of another. Also called ageplay, it can include the wearing and changing of diapers as well as bottle feeding.
An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session.
Scenes in which at least one participant pretends to be significantly younger than he or she actually is.
Also all covered play. With condom.
A tall, strong, often masculine woman.
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Asian Massage Parlor.
Animal transformation fantasy: Games and scenes in which the sub (bottom) acts or dresses like a dog, cat, horse, etc. See ponyboy, ponygirl.
Will see Asian clients only.
Adult Service Provider.
aka “Asian”: oral stimulation of the anus.
Around The World
Rimming. Oral sex on the anus
of either sex, analingus
Three acts in a session: oral, vaginal and anal
Analingus and fellatio
Oral sex on the anus of either sex, analingus, aka rimming, DATO.
cowgirl with girl squatting.
All Time Favorite.
Ass To Mouth. Penis, finger or toy comes out of receiver’s anus, and goes directly into receiver’s mouth.
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Trying to reach orgasm. e.g. ASP allowed multiple attempts: means the ASP allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested.
Menstruation, period. ‘Being visited by Aunt Flo‘.
Bondage and Discipline.
B&S, bait & switch
Describes a situation where ASP advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the ASP who shows up, or which has been grossly misrepresented the ASP.
Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.
Condom, with a condom, e.g. “BJ in a bag” = CBJ or “I filled the bag” = orgasm.
Genitals. From the Spanish “the low south”.
Breast implants are awesome and fun to play with!
bare back, bareback, BB
Without a condom. Depending upon context it may be used as shorthand for intercourse without a condom (BBFS).
An ASP whose only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return.
Groin massage, but sometimes means hand job (from Malaysia).
Bare Back Blow Job. fellatio without a condom; aka “un-translated French” (UTF).
Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow), aka CIM.
Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.
Bareback Blowjob With Facial.
Sexual intercourse without a condom.
Big beautiful knockers.
Big Beautiful Woman. An escort, ASP, who caters to clientele that prefer overweight, obese women.
Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will be described to a privileged listener or nobody at all.
Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of this lifestyle.
A large hairy (homosexual) man.
A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could “pass” as straight, either for work or for their families.
Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by ASP to describe good clients.
BBBJTCWS or CIM and ASP swallows. See BBBJNQNS, NQNS.
A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.
blue pill or blue steel
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Blow job, fellatio, French. Oral stimulation of the penis.
Ball Licking and Sucking.
Blow-n-go, a 15-minute oral-only session.
A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of “massage”, usually to indicate sexual stimulation (usually a handjob) is included and the person performing the service is not licensed as a massage therapist, aka FBSM, Sensual Massage.
Are Bondage chairs for you?
A piece of furniture, sometimes a very complex one, with varying number of restraints to keep a sub at dom’s mercy.
In the late nineteenth century, it was common for two unmarried women to share a home. Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women. These relationships became known as “Boston Marriages”.
In homosexual parlance: the passive partner. In BDSM: the submissive.
A type of BDSM play in which the Dom controls the Sub‘s access to oxygen
. Can be dangerous.
Defecation on your partner.
BS or body slide
Service where the ASP may slide their body on the client’s body using oil.
Bus stop babe.
A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men. See also gokkon.
A term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian. Often African American.
A very masculine lesbian.
businessmen-only, gentlemen-only or professional-only
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A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting “better” clientele.
A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics. Also a masculine homosexual.
A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. Everything looks good but ‘er face.
Effeminate male – from KAMP, Known As Male Prostitute.
See Doggy style.
cash and dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash, aka dance and dash, ROB.
Covered Blow Job. Blowjob or with a condom on, aka translated French (TF).
Cock and ball torture: application of clamps, cages, weights, wax, etc to male genitals as either punishment or tease and denial. Can be dangerous.
An ASP who is FS for $200/hr or less. The “CC” bit is the Roman numeral for 200.
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Concentration Camp Look.
A person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite gender especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
A person who sometimes wears the clothing and aesthetics of a gender other than the one they typically wear in their daily lives. See also transvestite
Covered Doggy Style.
Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.
Covered Full Service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) with a condom.
Cowgirl: she’s on top facing you.
A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return.
Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women.
Cum In Deep. The provider lets you come inside her with no condom. See BBFS.
Cum in Hair.
Cum In Mouth (in the context of fellatio without a condom (UTF/BBBJ)), see also NQNS, BBBJTC.
A person who makes them self available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than an ASP and more interested in a relationship. Not to be confused with non-pro.
Craig’s List. The classifieds board of the internet,
and formerly a free place for providers to advertise. Not so much a of player since the removal of Adult and Erotic services.
An ASP who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe an ASP who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde).
Chinese Massage Parlors are the same as Asian massage
Certified Massage Therapist. Generally a CMT is not an ASP. While an ASP specializing in massage services might be a CMT, it is unwise to assume a CMT is an ASP. Very unwise.
Cum On Body. Man ejaculates on a woman’s body.
Cum On Face. Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or facial.
Cum on Hair.
To cottage: to look for sexual partners in public bathrooms. Synonym: to cruise.
Sexual intercourse characterized by the male penis entering the female vagina.
collar and cuffs match
A euphemism to indicate that pubic hair color matches color of the hair on the head; natural hair coloring. Sometimes also referred to as ‘carpet & curtains match’.
Cum Over Mouth
(in the context of fellatio without a condom (UTF/BBBJ)). Lots of women hate swallowing so use the term C-0-M instead of C-I-M.
a euphemism for prostitution generally used by truckers.
Orgasm. e.g. Bareback blowjob to completion.
Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams.
Are taken to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. (e.g. Covered Blowjob means a condom was used.).
‘Girl on top’ position for sexual intercourse. Sometimes abbreviated CG (though this can be confused with the abbreviation for Call Girl as well. Mind the context for clarification.).
crime scene action
Got your red wings?
Sexual activity during the provider’s period (while menstruating). See also red wings.
The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman. In the 1970s, during the feminist movement, lesbians began to adopt the word crone to mean a wise older woman. Today, in lesbian and feminist circles, a crone is a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she be treated with respect.
Looking for prostitutes while driving.
Cyber-equivalents aren’t hard to imagine. Also, in homosexual slang, this is the same as “cottaging“.
Fetish relating to dominance and control; a desire to see small, defenseless animals crushed under women’s high heels.
Oral stimulation of a woman’s genitalia. ‘giving head’ to a woman. ‘going down on’ a woman.
cups of coffee
Orgasms, e.g. multiple cups of coffee means the provider allows more than one orgasm.
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dance and dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash. See cash and dash, ROB.
Digital anal probe, see digital penetration, aka digits.
(1) A session with an ASP. (2) A person who patronizes an ASP.
date rape drug
Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the “Forget Pill,” “Trip-and-Fall,” and
In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol,
which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don’t realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated.
She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug’s influence.
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Dining At The O. Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus. See also rimming and Asian.
Dine At The “Y”; cunnilingus.
Doesn’t Do Extras. Implies the ASP has a very limited and stringently adhered to menu.
Drug and Disease Free.
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
Double Digit Penetration (vagina and anus).
deep throat or DT
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
A hobbyist who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider
who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka White Knight. deposit a payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually used by ASPs as a hedge against no-shows.DFE and Dead Fish Experience.
Dead Fish Fuck.
Deep French Kissing. Kissing with deep, substantial tongue contact.
A very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive.
Insertion of the fingers (or toes) in the vagina or anus for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This has nothing to do with the insertion of digital devices up anyone’s orifice—hold on to those iPads!
When two people engage in anal sex, then the person who has been ‘giving it’ to the other’s ass takes his penis or penis-like implement and rubs it on the other person’s upper lip leaving a moustache.
Do It Yourself (masturbation).
See also self-service.
Rear entry position for sexual intercourse. See Spanish.
In BDSM, a person who administers the training to a submissive. Often shortened to Dom.
A euphemism for a payment to an ASP. Generally considered a feeble dodge against legal concerns: after all if you are giving the ASP a donation or gift, you are not paying for sex.
when a person (generally a female) has two objects (generally penises) simultaneously inserted in any two of the mouth, anus or vagina (most commonly the anus and vagina).
A threesome with two ASPs.
A woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.
A male who dresses like a female, usually for performance.
DT or deep throat
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.
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No One wants ED!
Law Enforcement. The euphemism stems from the fact that people would refer to Law Enforcement with the abbreviation, “LE”. When expressed phonetically it was confused with the female name, “Ellie“. Since confusion and chaos rule despite people’s best efforts—.
Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage, but before divorce.
European Massage Parlor (white girls).
Segment of bondage and discipline; including spanking /whipping.
Implants, most commonly breast implants, but sometimes penile implants (depending upon context).
Always pay cash!
Often cash payments for an ASP’s services are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing the ASP cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the ASP to discreetly pick up.
End of Message. Used in a subject line of a forum post to indicate no further content in body of message—where the title is intended to be sufficient.
An escort is an Adult entertainer who is compensated for his or her time and companionship.
escort mall, mall
A website that advertises many different ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with
each other, or with the mall.
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A female doing something to (providing a service for) a female.
A female doing something to (providing a service for) a male.
Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka facial or COF.
In BDSM, a form of erotic humiliation, whereby the dom sits on the face of a sub to force oral-genital or oral-anal contact.
Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or COF.
A woman who likes homosexual males.
A male homosexual.
Full Body Sensual Massage. A massage usually ending with a hand job. Often times the provider is nude or topless, aka Body Rub, Sensual Massage. Spelled “FBSM+”, means “with a bonus” and usually means a BJ.
Oral stimulation of the penis, aka Blow Job (BJ), ‘giving head’ (f2m or m2m).
A feminine lesbian, cf. butch.
Face down, ass up.
The strategy of “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them”.
The act or art of putting a fist in an anus or vagina. Apparently a very popular practice among more evolved (kinky) gays. It requires great care and huge amounts of lubrication.
Finger In Ass.
Finger In Rear.
Fire and ice
providing a blowjob with the mouth filled alternately with hot tea and ice.
Finger In Vagina, digital stimulations.
A police officer (uniformed or undercover).
The cultural reference stems from the 1970’s TV show “Hawaii 5-O”, which derived its name from the name for Hawaii State Police force.
Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
Frei Körper Kultur, German nudist subculture.
One who exhibits flaky or erratic behavior. Often used to describe ASPs or hobbyists who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
Threesome designation: female, male, female.
Fresh off the boat, a recent immigrant.
Fuck Of The Century.
Finger Outside Vagina.
Field Report, Fuck Review.
aka Foot warship – intense sexual interest in the shape, size, smell, texture and other characteristic of a foot.
Oral stimulation of the penis. Fellatio. “Translated” = with a condom. “Untranslated” = without a condom.
Kissing on mouth with tongue contact
Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion.
Fun To Fuck.
Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt. What some (asshole) posters try to spread when they post on public forums with false accusations of LE activity and STD outbreaks.
full meal deal
Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion, aka Full Service.
Finger Up The Butt.
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A gayborhood is a gay-friendly neighborhood or an area of town where gays and lesbians are known to live.
The ability to determine who is and isn’t gay.
An attractive young male used by the police to entrap homosexuals.
The physical manifestation of one’s gender identity, usually expressed through clothing, mannerisms, and chosen names.
A person’s internal sense of being a man or woman or boy or girl. For transgender people, their gender identity will not match the gender with which they were born.
gender identity disorder
A term used by physicians and psychologists to classify people who are transgender or transsexual.
Behavior that is different from traditionally defined “masculine” in males and “feminine” in females.
Someone who transgresses boundaries of gender identity and sexual orientation.
businessmen-only or professional-only.
A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting a “better” clientele.
Receive a blowjob.
Get naked. As a feeble dodge of law enforcement, an ASP may ask a client to “get comfortable” or “make yourself comfortable” before a session, this means to get fully undressed.
A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means! It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.
Girlfriend experience with all three holes.
When two women have strong feelings for one another, but not in a sexual way. A girl crush is strong infatuation that one woman has for another woman who seems beautiful, sophisticated, charming or accomplished. It usually refers to heterosexual women.
A literal hole in the wall between two spaces. The legendary purpose of this hole is to insert one’s penis in hopes of receiving an anonymous (this is the main thrill) handjob, blowjob or coitus.
Girl Next Door.
A variety of fetish that involves swallowing and/or ingesting copious amounts of semen by either a man or a woman. See also bukkake
Golden shower, GS
Urinating on your partner, urine play. See also water sports.
Gold star lesbian
A lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.
A BDSM subculture owing its existence to the world of Gor from the novels by John Norman. Gorean philosophy assigns stereotypical, “natural” roles to genders.
anal sex; anal sexual intercourse; penetration of the anus by the penis.
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Half & Half is not always for coffee
BJ followed by FS; a combination of both oral sex and sexual intercourse; fellatio & coitus.
Inserting a fist (optionally – with a part of the forearm) into the rectum.
Giving or receiving. Playing with feces, also known as scat play or brown showers.
Clean-shaven pubic area.
A woman who used to identify as a lesbian and dated women, but is now dating men.
High Dollar Hottie.
Happy Ending: usually a handjob or a blowjob after a massage.
Is amenable to marijuana use, aka 420 friendly. A bit of advice: Adding drugs to your hobbying mix tends to give you a MUCH larger profile on Uncle Leo’s radar. An ASP, who has a rep for being herb friendly likely is getting way more attention from Uncle Leo than the more conservative hobbyists would prefer.
Half Hearted Hand Job.
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka upselling.
The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion (Argentina).
HJ or Handjob
Masturbation; hand & finger stimulation of the penis by the ASP, aka hand release, manual release.
High Mileage. A derogatory reference to the number of sexual partners a person may have had. Conveys an implication of showing the ‘wear and tear’ of the said mileage.
Honeymoon Experience. Supposedly better than a GFE, and even more nebulous. It refers to a session that is comparable to the intensity and passion of lovemaking while on one’s honeymoon. Mostly marketing hype.
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Slang, euphemistic reference to the business of a client enlisting the services of an ASP.
Slang, euphemistic reference to one who (actively) participates in ‘the hobby‘.
Fear or dislike of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.
A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.
Also hotdoggin’. The pseudo-sexual act of placing the penis between the butt cheeks of the receiving partner. The penis being the “Hotdog” and the butt cheeks being the “Bun”. There is no intercourse, and usually no ejaculation. This is mainly a comical practice, and usually enjoyed by the giver more than the receiver. See also Italian.
Her/His Tongue Up My Ass, analingus.
Waste receptacle at the services of superior human beings.
Actions aimed to cause a submissive a feeling they long after. These are the things they normally don’t do, like wearing bizarre clothing, having sex in public, playing puppy or pony, or accepting verbal abuse.
A male prostitute. Same as punk.
Height and Weight Proportional. “Normal” build.
Incall is when you go to the escorts hotel or apartment!
Client meet the ASP at her location.
An ASP who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The ASP manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.
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Condom (e.g. She spoke French without the aid of an interpreter = BBBJ).
A person born with ambiguous genitalia or genitalia of both sexes.
Used to be called hermaphrodite.
Initial Public Offering. Used to denote the public introduction of a new ASP, usually via a review.
In Search Of. A post/inquiry looking for something (presumably ‘something’ specific).
Similar to Russian, but the penis is placed between the partner’s butt cheeks. See also hotdogging.
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An establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and hand job, but more services might be available.
A man who patronizes prostitutes, a hobbyist.
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K9 means doggy!
Canine, or doggy style.
Kama Sutra or Kamasutra
A Sanskrit treatise setting forth rules for sensuous and sensual pleasure, love, and marriage in accordance with Hindu law.
Korean GFE: with CBJ rather than BBBJ.
Vagina and/or surrounding areas. The words you can expect to see used together with K. are “bald”, “partly shaven”, “trimmed”, “natural”.
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Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system where each criteria is separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.
Same as above + Expense and (would or wouldn’t) Repeat.
What weapons did amazons use?
A double-sided axe that the Amazons were said to use as their main weapon. Lesbians have adopted the labrys as symbol of power and independence. Many lesbians wear necklaces or earrings with a labrys symbol as a way to identify themselves to other lesbians.
A style of pubic hair sculpting resulting in a narrow vertical strip.
A hobbyist who worships an ASP to excess.
Lay down doggie
Also lazy dog. Doggie style with woman flat on stomach.
LDL is just one more
escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
Low dollar looker, the opposite of HTH.
Law Enforcement Officer.
A woman who is sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.
Light French Kiss. Kissing with only light tongue involvement.
An abbreviation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender.
A woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femme side.
Little blue helper
Light Kissing (closed mouth).
Licensed Massage Practitioner. See also CMT. Can also mean “Latin Massage Parlor”.
Licensed Massage Therapist. See also CMT.
Lone Star Lesbian
A woman who has only had sex with one other woman in their life. Straight and bisexual people can be Lone Stars as well, but Lone Star Hetero doesn’t sound nearly as interesting.
Land of smiles, Thailand.
A prostitute that works primarily in truck stop parking lots (usually soliciting from a CB radio).
Legal prostitute in Nevada.
Long Term Relationship. When an ASP drops out of the business for a very substantial stipend, paid weekly, or monthly for exclusivity she is said to be in a long term relationship. See also sugar daddy.
A male doing something to (providing a service for) a female.
A male doing something to (providing a service for) a male.
Proprietress of an agency.
In a British parlour, the person who answers the phone and books the schedule.
Also escort mall. A website like Skipthegames.com that advertises a variety of escorts or ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
Female manager of an asian massage parlor.
Man in a boat, little man in a boat
Stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers, aka hand job, hand release.
A method of treating the body for remedial or hygienic purposes, including but not limited to rubbing, stroking, kneading, or tapping with the hand or an instrument or both. It may, but does not necessarily, include sexual stimulation. Sensual Massage indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job).
Multiple Bell Ringing (MSOG).
Anal sex or analingus, e.g. “She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean.”. See also Greek.
The services generally considered available from a particular ASP.
Pubic hair wig / toupee. Also, something George W. Bush has repeatedly said he is proud to be.
Threesome designation: Male, female, female.
Threesome designation: male, female, male.
Man in blue, law enforcement officer.
A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating an ASP is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.
Mom/Mother I’d Like to Fuck.
Also mish. A position for sexual intercourse where the man is on top.
Threesome designation: male, male, female.
A pubic hair style leaving a narrow strip of hair in the middle of the pubic area, aka landing strip, muff hawk, cock mohawk.
Short for whore monger. One who frequents prostitutes. See also hobbyist.
Multiple Pops (MSOG)
Massage Parlor Attendant.
Multiple Positions Covered Full Service.
Multiple Positions Oral Sex.
Multiple Shots On Goal, also Multiple Pops. The ASP allows you the opportunity to climax more than once during the session.
Wrapping a person up with layers material in order to immobilize them (nose and mouth are left open for breathing). Used to induce the feeling of utter helplessness. Can be considered a form of sensory deprivation.
No Call / No Show. See also no-show.
Newb, a novice hobbyist or novice ASP.
Non/Not Genuine Photos.
No-Money Guys. Hobbyists who are on a strict (generally low) budget for hobbying.
A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
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A person who makes her/himself available for sexual encounters for financial gain only occasionally (possibly to meet some short-term financial needs). May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship. Some argue that ‘the line’ is more definitive: if you take money, then you are a professional.
When an ASP or hobbyist doesn’t show up for an appointment and has not contacted the other party in advance to cancel or warn of problems in making the appointment. A very annoying and, unfortunately, too common occurrence in the hobby. When the offending party doesn’t call afterwards to offer an explanation and/or apology the situation is referred to as a No-Show/No-Call (NS/NC) and is considered an even more egregious offense.
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No touching allowed. (e.g. no-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club).
Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.
Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.
No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
No Strings Attached.
No Show / No Call. see also no-show.
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Orgasm or orgasms.
Off the clock
Activities that occur with an ASP that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock“).
One Night Stand.
Oral To Completion. Fellatio to orgasm.
As in “outed”. Private, personal information on a hobbyist or an ASP is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address is posted to a public forum.
Outcall is when the escort comes to you
The ASP comes to the client’s location.
Out of the closet
Being open about one’s (LGBT) sexual orientation.
Over the knee spanking – bending a submissive over one’s knee and striking his or her buttocks with either an open hand or a cane, paddle, whip, etc.
Oral Without, fellatio without a condom, aka BBBJ, UTF.
Oral Without Condom To Completion.
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Privates to privates: rubbing genitalia together without insertion.
Pay for Play. Refers to the concept of paying for sex.
Male manager of an asian massage parlor.
Pussy For Free (a myth).
Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest, trying to produce a white ‘decoration’.
Afterdarkads escorts are into all sorts of fun!
Anal penetration of a male by a female with the help of either a buttplug or strap-on.
Put it in the bum/butt.
Someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex without much reciprocation.
A person (generally a man) who solicits clients for a prostitute.
A slang term for anal or vaginal fisting.
Penis in Vagina.
Prostate massage or Private message (on a forum).
Ponygirl or ponyboy
A popular roleplay fantasy that sees the submissive transform into a pony with the help of a harness, reins, gag bit, and a tail attached to a butt plug. The “pony” is expected to prance and/or pull a cart.
A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on ASPs and the hobby.
Orgasms.Everyhing you want to know about orgasms!
An ASP may allow a client to have more than one orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed).
Pussy on the Side. Usually referring to hobbyists in relationships who are getting some POS.
A lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large.
Also gentleman-only, businessmen-only
. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting “better” clientele.
Private Show (Dance only).
Private Viewing (Dance only).
Porn Star Experience. A session that gives the feeling of being in a Porn or XXX Movie or like having a date with a Porn Star. As with the Girlfriend Experience (GFE), a PSE is not very well defined and definitions will vary wildly. It generally refers more to the tone & tenor of the session (totally wild!) than to specific services provided, but many believe PSE should include the possibility of DATY, UTF, Greek, DFK, NQNS, Russian, COF and a broad array of FS positions.
Puffies or puffers are the best nipples!
Breasts where the entire areola appears ‘puffy’, enlarged, or swollen.
A male prostitute.
A British slang term for a hobbyist.
A variant of animal play where a submissive acts like a puppy: barks, whines, eats from a bowl, and generally obeys the master or faces punishment.
A session that is most often limited to a striptease and self-service. Usually in the context of a Strip Club.
Polyvinyl chloride. In skin-tight fetish clothing, a shiny substitute for more expensive materials: leather, rubber and latex. “PVC” is also used as a generic term for PVC proper, latex, vinyl and leather.
Pussy Whipped. Adjective describing a guy controlled by a girl because she gives him sex.
Pretty Young Thing.
Imagine seeing an escort and she lets loose a queef!
An emission of air from the vagina, especially when noisy, aka vaginal fart or vart.
R & T
Rub and Tug. A massage followed by a hand job.
Sex without condom.
Reverse Cowgirl Anal.
See Reverse cowgirl.
Red wings .escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
The ‘badge’ a hobbyist earns for performing oral sex (cunnilingus) on an ASP who is menstruating.
Request. Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information.
See also 411.
Review. Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of an ASP.
Woman rides on top, facing away.
Sexual intercourse followed by oral sex to completion.
Where are the best escorts now that backpage is gone?
The client massages the ASP.
The client performs oral sex on the ASP.
A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service.
Rimming or rimjob
Analingus; oral stimulation of the anus.
Red Light District. Area rich with prostitution.
Russian massage parlor.
R.O.B. or ROB
Run/Rip Off Bitch. Individuals posing as providers take the money and run without providing any services, aka Cash and Dash.
Roleplay with an escort on afterdarkads!
Also roleplay. Acting out sexual fantasies in a specific scenario, where participants are assigned roles: dog – owner, nurse – patient, teacher – student, etc.
Role reversal escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
Same as pegging – penetration of male’s anus by a female with a strap-on dildo
Role playing games.
Return To Fuck.
Read The Fucking Forum.
1) Material popular with BDSM practitioners for its tactile characteristics; 2) Items – primarily special clothing – made of this material; compare to PVC; 3) Condom.
Rubbing a penis between ASP‘s breasts. Usually results in pearl necklace.
Russian (in Australia)
Short sex session, aka a “Quickie”.
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Always be safe when seeing an escort!
Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
San Juan Capistrano
BBBJTC and the ASP
swallows. See also CIM, BBBJNQNS, birdwatching.
Sandbag, sandbagger escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that attempts to mislead the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
Without. e.g. She provided French sans beret = BBBJ.
Defecation on one’s partner or feces play.
An ASP or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client. E.g. collecting verifiable personal info such as the hobbyist’s real name, place of employment, home or work phone, home or work address, and/ or a referral from a trusted provider. Upfront deposits may also be used as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows.
Did the escort you booked self review?
Also Self-post. An ASP or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Masturbation. e.g. “It was a self-servicejack shack” = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
An escort whose main source of income is something other than escorting.
Restricting somebody’s ability to see, hear, smell, taste and/or touch through the use of blindfolds, earmuffs, hoods, etc.
Also SM. Indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job).
The time spent with an ASP.
Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses.
Sex For Hire.
Transsexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn’t had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect.
Shill escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
A person who writes unsolicited positive commentary about an ASP in a discussion forum to ‘suck up’ to the ASP or who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an ASP or agency.
What does it mean when she says multiple shots on goal?
Shots on goal
Attempts to reach orgasm. e.g. ‘She allows multiple shots on goal’ means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. See MSOG.
Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
An unwarranted or overzealous harsh review or abusive criticism of an ASP or agency.
ASP takes ejaculate in her mouth and returns it via kissing to the ejaculator.
Significant Other. Spouse or partner in a (non-casual) relationship.
Shot(s) on goal, attempt(s) at orgasm.
69 Is the best mutual oral sex!
Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
Sat On My Face.
Stantard Operating Procedure. Also a escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
South of the border
Fellatio without a condom. See also French, BBBJ.
Service Provider, prostitute. See also ASP.
Spanish (Australian usage)
Penis between her breasts, Russian.
Spanish (USA usage)
Penis, finger or toy comes out of the ASP’s ass, and goes directly into the ASP’s mouth. See also Dirty Sanchez, ATM.
Slapping or striking somebody’s buttocks with the palm of the hand or an object like paddle, hairbrush, slapper, etc. A form of punishment / humiliation.
Have you ever had a spinner?
A very petite provider. So petite in fact, she could easily spin around the client’s erect penis in a position like Asian Cowgirl. One possible etymology: from the action reminiscent of the 1970’s toy, “Sit ‘n’ Spin”.
Female ejaculation, an ASP who ejaculates.
Sexual Reassignment Surgery.
Anus or Unresponsive ASP.
Sexually Transmitted Disease.
Dont get caught in a prostitution sting!
A female police officer poses as an ASP to apprehend escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use. A male police officer poses as a client to apprehend unsuspecting ASPs.
Stone butch lesbian
A lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.
Short Term Relationship.
Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by clients in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action.
In BDSM, giving freely of oneself for the pleasures of others, subordinating oneself (with agreed upon limits).
What is a submissive escort?
In BDSM, a person trained by a dominant. Often shortened to Sub. See Submission.
Without a condom (i.e. no raincoat).
A mechanical sex device shaped as a half-barrel with a dildo mounted in the middle. When escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use it is common.
Sweet Young Thing.
Take care of business
Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first.”.
To dunk ones scrotum into the open mouth of another person.
Tie and tease
A game of control over a partner’s orgasm with common use of physical restraints. Often a part of tease and denial.
Tease and denial
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Also known as erotic denial, orgasm denial. Escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use with A mild sexual torture. A high state of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended time without climax.
Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor.
The erotic reviews site, adult services classifieds board, and hobby discussion forums.
Transgender. Catch-all term for transvestites, transsexuals, shemales, and CDs.
Too Good To Be True.
Self-service. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
Do you have to tip the escort you hired?
The ASP demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services. See also upselling, hidden charges and escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
TOFTT means take one for the team!
Take One For The Team. What a hobbyist is said to do when they see an enigmatic ASP. Some argue that a hobbyist is only TOFTT when the experience ends up to be a bad experience. Others argue that if the hobbyist doesn’t report back in some way, e.g., with a review, then the hobbyist has not TOFTT.
In homosexual parlance: the active partner. In BDSM: the dominant.
Toss the salad
1) BDSM slavery; a way of letting the Submissive understand that the Dominant is their master. 2) Any specific scenario used to convey the message from #1: slave training,escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use and pup training, pony training, etc.
An inclusive term, encompassing transgender, transsexual and other gender variant people.
A person whose gender expression is different from how society says they are “supposed” to be. Transgender can be an umbrella term for cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersex people and other gender-variant individuals.
A person with the urge to be the opposite sex and escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Translated French, TF
Oral sex with a condom.
Condom, e.g., “She spoke fluent French without a translator” = BBBJ.
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A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
A sex act for money, as in ‘She is turning tricks‘.
A man who patronizes prostitutes, as in ‘That trick was a FOBU’.
A devotee to the “Find them, the fuck them, Forget them” strategy.
Trip to islands
Greek, anal. Also a “tour of the islands”.
The act of driving around looking for a prostitute. As in cruising.
Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others. One who does so is referred to as a ‘troll’.
Transsexual. A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Tight Tan Ass.
Assplay with an escort on afterdarkads.com
Tongue Up My Ass.
Transvestite. A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
Transvestite Street Walker.
Two Call System
The general location is revealed during the first call; location specifics are revealed on the second call.
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A law enforcement officer.
Uncovered, or untranslated
Without a condom.
Common phrases used by escorts
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka hidden charges.
Untranslated French. Oral sex without a condom.
Under The Radar;
an ASP who maintains a very low profile; generally does not advertise, does not accept reviews, does not have a website and does not participate in hobby forums.
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verbal humiliation / abuse in the escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
Issuing insults and negative epithets to produce belittlement. Lots of escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use, from which excitement and/or arousal can be obtained. Giving is done by the dominant, who produces the humiliation, while receiving is done by the submissive, who is the object.
Plain genital sex without any extras.
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Wild Ass Humping.
Urination play. see also golden shower.
Dripping melted wax on the submissive‘s naked skin. This activity requires thorough understanding of the material that the candles are made of. Eyewear is recommended.
Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.
What terms do escorts use on afterdarkads?
Working Girl. A prostitute.
In the strictest sense, a strip of leather attached to a handle, whip commonly describes any object used for beating a submissive: whips proper, canes, crops, paddles, slappers, etc. Also escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
A hobbyist who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka defender.
One who habitually patronizes prostitutes.
Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend.
With a condom (e.g. French with = CBJ).
Without a condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ).
WL is alsos a escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
Word of Advice.
An alternative spelling of woman or women often favored by feminists escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
What the f#$k.
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Afterdarkads has replaced backpage for escorts!
Your Mileage May Vary. A overused, common sense disclaimer meant to convey that an ASP may do things with one person, but not with another. Often used as a caveat, “Don’t accuse me of a false report if she doesn’t do the same with you.”.
An ASP who is known for being inconsistent in her attitude and service. i.e. Gets hot and cold reviews.
Other common internet abbreviations
As A Matter Of Fact.
Any Day Now.
A Fool And His Money Are Soon Parted.
As Far As I Am Concerned escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
As Far As I Know.
As I Mentioned Before.
At The Moment.
At The Same Time.
Believe It Or Not.
Buy One Get One Free escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
Be Right Back.
Be Right Back – Bathroom Break.
Be Right Back –escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use Coffee Break.
Broke Ribs Laughing, Call For Help.
Beats The Stuffing Out Of Me.
By The Way.
Find craigslist personals on afterdarkads!
Cover Your Ass.
DILIGA (S | F | D)
Do I look like I give a (St) (Fk) (Damn) ?.
Excuse The Hell Out of Me.
Falling Out Of My Chair Busting A Spleen Laughing.
Formerly Known As.
Fouled Up Beyond All Repair/Recognition.
For What Its Worth.
For Your Information.
For Your Records.
Grin, Duck and Run.
In Any Case.
Escort terms as found in the escort ads on afterdarkads!
I Am Not A Lawyer But.
I Could, Of Course, Be Wrong.
In My (Humble) Opinion.
In Other Words.
In Search Of.
I Seem To Remember.
I Wish I knew.
Keep In Touch. escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use
Latest And Greatest.
Let Me Know.
Laughing Out Loud.
Long Time No See.
Let Us Know How It Turns Out.
Management By Wandering Around.
Make Money Fast (scam).
Not In My Back Yard.
Now That You Mention It.
Oh My God/Gosh.
On The Other Hand.
Afterdarkads is the new backpage classifieds!
Original Post or Original Poster.
Problem Exists Between Keyboard And Chair.
Problem Exists Between Monitor And Chair.
Pardon Me [For] Jumping In.
Rolls On Floor Laughing.
Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Ass Off.
Too Flippin’ eXpensive escort terms and abbreviations sexworkers use.
Thanks In Advance.
Topless lap dance.
The Powers That Be.
To The Best Of My Knowledge.
Talk To You Later.
Time Will Tell.
Working As Designed.
Wait And See.
What The Hell Do I Know.
You Have Been Trolled.
Your mileage may vary, your experience may be different
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